Your Mom Called the Registrar: Who Actually Gets to See Your Grades?
It’s October of your first semester. Your mom calls the registrar and asks how midterms went. She’s paying the bill, and she has read every report card since kindergarten. The person on the phone says they can’t discuss your grades. Four months ago, your high school would have opened the whole file for her. Your mom didn’t change. The rights did — a federal law passed in 1974 moved them from her to you the day you started college. That law also decides who else can see your transcript and how you correct a file that’s wrong. Here is what FERPA covers, who can see your records at each stage, and the steps for seeing, fixing, and protecting your own file.What Is FERPA? The Short Answer
Who Can See Your School Records? Five Situations
Divorce alone doesn’t change that: under 34 CFR § 99.4, either parent has full rights unless a court order, state statute, or legally binding document specifically revokes them. FERPA gives a student under 18 no independent right to the file, but § 99.5(b) lets schools give students more access. Ask.
Without it, a college is allowed to share with parents in three main cases: you are their dependent for federal tax purposes (§ 99.31(a)(8)); there is a health or safety emergency (§ 99.36); or you are under 21 and the college has determined you committed a disciplinary violation involving alcohol or a controlled substance (§ 99.31(a)(15)). Allowed is not required, so read your college’s policy.
Records can also follow you: a school may send them to a school or college where you seek or intend to enroll, and may share what’s needed to decide your financial aid.
A court order or subpoena can reach your records, but the school generally must make a reasonable effort to notify you or your parents first. In an emergency, a school may tell appropriate parties what they need to know when there is an “articulable and significant threat” to someone’s health or safety. A police officer who simply asks for your file, with no listed exception, isn’t entitled to it under FERPA.
A private K-12 school that takes no Department of Education funds sits outside the law; there, your enrollment contract, the handbook, and state law control. And FERPA covers records only — whether a school can go through your phone is separate law, covered in our guide to school phone searches.
- Florida — Fla. Stat. § 1002.22 lets a parent or student ask a circuit court for an injunction when a school official refuses to honor records rights.
- New York — Education Law § 2-d bars selling a student’s personally identifiable information or releasing it for commercial purposes.
- Texas — Education Code § 26.004 entitles a parent to all written district records about their child, including grades, discipline, counseling, and psychological records.
- Ohio — Revised Code § 3319.321 forbids releasing public school students’ directory information for use in a profit-making plan or activity.
- Washington — RCW 28A.605.030 gives a parent or guardian the right to review all education records and requires each district to adopt an access procedure.
What to Say When You Want to See, Fix, or Protect Your Records
“Under FERPA and 34 CFR § 99.10, I am requesting to inspect and review my education records, including my transcript and discipline file. Please tell me when and where I can review them within the 45 days the law allows.”
2. To see who else has looked:“I would also like to inspect the record of requests and disclosures kept with my file under 34 CFR § 99.32.”
3. To fix something that’s wrong:“I am asking the school to amend this entry because it is inaccurate or misleading, for these reasons. If the school decides not to amend it, please tell me in writing how to request a hearing.”
4. To opt out of directory information (check the annual notice for the deadline):“Please do not designate or release any of my information as directory information, and confirm in writing that my opt-out is on file.”
Send requests to the registrar or records office and keep a dated copy. A school can’t charge you to search for or retrieve records, and can’t destroy them while your request is pending. To let a parent see college records, give the school signed, dated consent naming the records, the purpose, and the recipient.- Write it down the same day: what was shared, with whom, when, and how you found out. Save emails and screenshots.
- Check for an exception. Read the school’s annual FERPA notice and directory information list, and ask to inspect the disclosure record in your file.
- Raise it with the school in writing — the registrar or principal first. The Department of Education strongly encourages this step, though it isn’t required.
- File a FERPA complaint with the Student Privacy Policy Office, using the form on studentprivacy.ed.gov and specific facts, within 180 days of the violation or of when you knew or reasonably should have known about it.
- Know who files: parents and eligible students. If you’re under 18 and in K-12, your parent files. Then check whether your state’s law adds a remedy.
Your School Records: What Schools Can vs. Can’t Do
✓ SCHOOLS CAN
- Let staff with a legitimate educational interest see your records
- Send your records to a school or college where you’re enrolling
- Release directory information after public notice, unless you opted out
- Tell a college student’s parents about grades if the student is their tax dependent
- Disclose what’s necessary in a real health or safety emergency
✗ SCHOOLS CAN’T
- Give your grades or discipline file to outsiders without signed, dated consent or a listed exception
- Take more than 45 days to let you or your parents inspect your records
- Charge a fee to search for or retrieve your records
- Treat your Social Security number as directory information
- Deny an amendment request without telling you about your right to a hearing
FERPA Myths, Busted
FERPA Questions People Actually Ask
Tap a question to open it.Can my parents see my grades in college?
Can a school share my records without permission?
How do I see my own school records, and how long can the school take?
Can I make my school change or remove something in my record?
What is directory information, and how do I opt out?
I’m under 18 and taking college classes. Who controls those records?
Does FERPA apply to private schools?
FERPA Key Terms, Explained
The Law Behind Your School Records
One statute, one set of regulations, and two Supreme Court rulings. Full text is linked in Sources.Student Privacy Law That’s Still Moving
- Who enforces FERPA — on June 30, 2026, the Department of Education said it had entered an interagency agreement with the Department of Justice to speed enforcement, with the Student Privacy Policy Office and the Justice Department’s Civil Rights Division acting together against a school district. On September 1, 2026, the Justice Department sued that district, Kansas City, Kansas Public Schools, in federal court over parents’ access to records, and called the case the first of its kind. FERPA complaints still go to the Student Privacy Policy Office.
- Parents’ access to K-12 records — in January 2026, the Office announced a finding that the California Department of Education was violating FERPA, saying state law and guidance pressured districts to keep records such as “gender support plans” from parents. The Department’s position is that these are education records a parent may inspect; it raised the loss of federal funding. California challenged the finding in federal court in February 2026.
- State student-data laws — the newest amendments we found in the official notes to the FERPA regulations date to December 2011, apart from a January 2017 update to the section that names the enforcing office. States have written rules of their own, such as New York’s Education Law § 2-d, and those can change faster.
The Bottom Line on What FERPA Is and Who Sees Your Records
FERPA gives three rights — see the records, ask to correct them, control most sharing — and one switch: at 18 or at college, those rights stop being your parents’ and become yours. Most exceptions are the school’s choice, so the policy your school publishes each year matters as much as the statute. Want your file? Ask in writing and count 45 days. Something wrong in it? Ask for an amendment, then a hearing, then add your own statement. Records went where they shouldn’t have? Write it down and remember the 180 days. Now you know.Sources
Primary sources:- 20 U.S.C. § 1232g — Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act — law.cornell.edu
- 34 CFR Part 99 — FERPA regulations, current text — ecfr.gov
- 34 CFR § 99.3 — definitions — law.cornell.edu
- 34 CFR § 99.10 — inspection within 45 days — law.cornell.edu
- 34 CFR § 99.20 — amending records — law.cornell.edu
- 34 CFR § 99.31 — when consent is not required — law.cornell.edu
- 34 CFR § 99.37 — directory information — law.cornell.edu
- Gonzaga University v. Doe, 536 U.S. 273 (2002) — supreme.justia.com
- Owasso Independent School District v. Falvo, 534 U.S. 426 (2002) — supreme.justia.com
- How to file a FERPA complaint, with the complaint form — studentprivacy.ed.gov
- Which schools FERPA applies to — studentprivacy.ed.gov
- Students under 18 enrolled in both high school and college — studentprivacy.ed.gov
- The 45-day rule and shorter state deadlines — studentprivacy.ed.gov
- Family Policy Compliance Office letter on the amendment right (Aug. 13, 2004) — studentprivacy.ed.gov
- 20 U.S.C. § 7908 — military recruiter access to student contact information — law.cornell.edu
- Department of Education and Department of Justice enforcement agreement (June 30, 2026) — ed.gov
- Justice Department lawsuit against Kansas City, Kansas Public Schools (September 1, 2026) — justice.gov
- FERPA finding on the California Department of Education (January 2026) — ed.gov
- California Attorney General’s announcement of the lawsuit challenging the finding (February 11, 2026) — oag.ca.gov
- Fla. Stat. § 1002.22 — leg.state.fl.us
- N.Y. Education Law § 2-d — nysenate.gov
- Tex. Education Code § 26.004 (in Chapter 26) — statutes.capitol.texas.gov
- Ohio Revised Code § 3319.321 — codes.ohio.gov
- RCW 28A.605.030 — app.leg.wa.gov
LawJustic is for educational purposes only and does not provide legal advice. Student records law combines federal rules with state law and each school’s own policies, and enforcement practices are changing. If your records were shared or you were denied access, talk to a parent or trusted adult and consider contacting the Student Privacy Policy Office or an education attorney. Last reviewed: October 2026.